Embracing Your Destiny: Finding Your Special Function and Skills
Each of us has a destiny, a fate. We are all here for a purpose, and only we can fulfill that purpose. It is said that if we try to do something else, we will not succeed. This is especially true for those who have special functions to perform and possess special skills. However, not everyone is meant to have special functions or possess those unique skills.
I consider myself one of those individuals who has a special function and the necessary skills to perform it. Even if I were to try my hand at something else, my destiny would not allow me to succeed or even have the opportunity to pursue it.
Imagine applying for jobs in an area that is not aligned with your true purpose. Despite being highly qualified according to the world's standards, you would not be hired for that position. It may seem perplexing to those around you, but deep down, you understand that it is because you are meant for something greater.
Discovering Your Special Function
Uncovering your special function requires introspection and self-reflection. It is about understanding your passions, strengths, and unique abilities. Take the time to explore what truly drives you and brings you joy. Consider the activities that make you lose track of time and fill you with a sense of fulfillment.
Ask yourself questions such as:
- What are my natural talents and abilities?
- What activities do I excel in effortlessly?
- What brings me a sense of purpose and meaning?
- What impact do I want to make in the world?
By delving into these questions and reflecting on your answers, you can start to uncover clues about your special function. It may not come to you immediately, but with patience and self-exploration, you will begin to understand where your true calling lies.
Cultivating Your Special Skills
Once you have identified your special function, it is essential to cultivate the necessary skills to excel in that area. While some skills may come naturally to you, others may require practice and dedication.
Consider the following steps to develop your special skills:
1. Education and Training
Seek out educational opportunities and training programs that align with your special function. This could involve enrolling in courses, attending workshops, or even pursuing a degree in a related field. Acquiring knowledge and expertise will enhance your abilities and set you apart.
2. Mentorship and Guidance
Find mentors who have already mastered the skills you aspire to possess. Their guidance and wisdom can provide valuable insights and shortcuts to success. A mentor can offer support, advice, and encouragement as you navigate your journey towards fulfilling your special function.
3. Practice and Dedication
Like any skill, mastering your special function requires practice and dedication. Set aside time each day to hone your abilities and refine your craft. Embrace challenges and learn from failures, as they are stepping stones towards growth and improvement.
4. Networking and Collaboration
Connect with like-minded individuals who share your passion and interests. Networking and collaborating with others in your field can open doors to new opportunities and provide a supportive community. Surrounding yourself with individuals who understand and appreciate your special function can further fuel your motivation and drive.
Embracing Your Destiny
Once you have discovered your special function and cultivated your skills, it is time to embrace your destiny. Trust in the path that has been laid out for you and have faith in your abilities. Understand that your purpose is unique to you, and no one else can fulfill it.
Embracing your destiny may not always be easy. There may be obstacles and setbacks along the way, but remember that they are part of the journey. Stay resilient and persevere, knowing that every challenge is an opportunity for growth.
As you embark on this fulfilling journey, remember that your special function and skills are a gift. Use them to make a positive impact in the world and leave a lasting legacy. Your destiny awaits, and it is up to you to seize it.
So, embrace your destiny, discover your special function, and let your unique skills shine. The world is waiting for you to make your mark.
After UCLA College of Letters where I obtained PhD is Philosophy, Psychology and Religion I got a teaching job at the University. I felt uneasy teaching. I applied for a job in the mental health field; I got many offers and within two years was running the mental health center where I worked, supervising psychologists and psychiatrists who have been in that field for many decades.
Eventually, I felt bored by the job (of been executive director...I was barely thirty two years old when I was the executive director of the largest mental health agency in the city where I lived) and quit and tried doing other things.
Nothing I tried worked out for me. So, I did other executive director jobs but eventually wound up quitting and returning to college teaching until I felt that teaching is too easy for me; I felt unchallenged being a college professor (I filled my time writing on assorted subjects that interested me).
Eventually, I realized that I have a destiny and fate. My normal routine is to read until I go to sleep (although there is a huge TV in the house, I seldom watch it) and get up around 5 AM, think for a while, and then go to my computer and type the thoughts that I just had in my sleep.