The True Measure of Success
Success is often measured by the amount of money one makes or the material possessions one acquires. While financial success can provide a certain level of comfort and security, it is not the sole indicator of a fulfilling and meaningful life. There is another type of success, one that is often overlooked but equally important - the success of those who are doing what they truly, really want to do with their lives.
Take, for example, a scientific researcher studying the human brain and helping us understand its complex nature. This individual may not be making a fortune, but their work is invaluable in advancing our knowledge and improving the lives of others. They are driven by a passion for unraveling the mysteries of the mind, and their dedication to this pursuit makes them a truly successful person.
Similarly, someone who dedicates their life to understanding human psychology, like the early psychologists Freud, Adler, Jung, and others, can be considered successful. These individuals devoted themselves to studying the intricacies of the human mind and behavior, striving to make a positive impact on society. Their work has laid the foundation for modern psychology and has helped countless individuals lead better lives.
Success in this sense is not measured by wealth or fame, but by the impact one has on the world and the fulfillment one derives from their chosen path. It is about finding purpose and meaning in what we do, rather than simply chasing after external markers of success.
Whether it is through scientific research, artistic expression, or community service, success can be found in any endeavor that brings joy, fulfillment, and a sense of contribution. It is about using our unique talents and passions to make a difference, however big or small, in the lives of others.
So, the next time you find yourself questioning your own success, remember that it is not solely defined by your bank account or the possessions you own. True success lies in doing what you love, pursuing your passions, and making a positive impact on the world around you. It is about finding your own unique path and living a life that is true to yourself.
Ultimately, success is a personal journey, and each of us has the power to define what it means to us. So, follow your heart, chase your dreams, and embrace the success that comes from living a life aligned with your true passions and values.
After UCLA College of Letters where I obtained PhD is Philosophy, Psychology and Religion I got a teaching job at the University. I felt uneasy teaching. I applied for a job in the mental health field; I got many offers and within two years was running the mental health center where I worked, supervising psychologists and psychiatrists who have been in that field for many decades.
Eventually, I felt bored by the job (of been executive director...I was barely thirty two years old when I was the executive director of the largest mental health agency in the city where I lived) and quit and tried doing other things.
Nothing I tried worked out for me. So, I did other executive director jobs but eventually wound up quitting and returning to college teaching until I felt that teaching is too easy for me; I felt unchallenged being a college professor (I filled my time writing on assorted subjects that interested me).
Eventually, I realized that I have a destiny and fate. My normal routine is to read until I go to sleep (although there is a huge TV in the house, I seldom watch it) and get up around 5 AM, think for a while, and then go to my computer and type the thoughts that I just had in my sleep.