The Impression of Wealth: My College Behavior and Grand Tours

Have you ever been mistaken for something you're not? It's a curious thing how our actions and choices can sometimes give off a certain impression about our background or lifestyle. In my case, my behavior at college often led people to believe that I came from a wealthy family. But the truth is, I wasn't born into wealth.

So, why did people get the impression that I was from a rich family? Well, it all started with my summer adventures. While most of my peers were working part-time jobs or staying home during the break, I would save up my money and embark on grand tours of various destinations. From London to Paris, Rome to Geneva, Frankfort to Hamburg, Vienna to Venice, and even Washington DC to New York, I had visited them all.

These trips weren't just your average vacations. I would buy plane tickets and immerse myself in the culture and history of each place. I would explore the famous landmarks, indulge in local cuisine, and soak up the vibrant atmosphere. It was like living a dream, and I couldn't help but share my experiences with others.

As I recounted my adventures and shared photos from my travels, people started to assume that I must come from a well-off family. After all, how else could a college student afford to jet-set across the globe? Little did they know, it was all a result of my careful saving and planning.

During my grand tours of European capitals, I couldn't help but feel a sense of superiority. It wasn't because I believed myself to be better than the locals or the important people in each city. It was simply the awe and wonder that came with being in such iconic places. Standing in front of the Colosseum in Rome or gazing up at the Eiffel Tower in Paris, I couldn't help but feel a sense of privilege.

One particular moment stands out in my memory. While in Rome, I made it a point to visit Saint Peter's Basilica. It was a breathtaking experience, to say the least. As I stood in the grandeur of the basilica, surrounded by ornate architecture and stunning artwork, I couldn't help but wonder if I would catch a glimpse of the pope.

Now, I must clarify that my desire to see the pope wasn't driven by a need for validation or a sense of importance. It was simply the excitement of being in the presence of someone who held such significance in the world. It was like being in the same room as history itself.

As I waited, along with countless other visitors, my mind wandered. I thought about the impact that this one man had on millions of people around the globe. The influence of the papacy and the history of the Catholic Church filled the air, making the experience even more surreal.

Unfortunately, I didn't get to see the pope that day. But that didn't diminish the awe and wonder I felt in that moment. It was a reminder that our actions and choices can sometimes give off unintended impressions. While my grand tours may have given the impression of wealth, they were simply a result of my passion for exploration and my determination to make the most of my college years.

Looking back, I realize that it's not the material possessions or extravagant experiences that define who we are. It's the choices we make and the values we hold dear. My behavior at college may have led people to believe that I was from a rich family, but in reality, it was a testament to my resourcefulness, determination, and love for adventure.

So, the next time you find yourself being judged based on your actions or choices, remember that appearances can be deceiving. It's not about where you come from or what you have, but rather the person you choose to be and the experiences that shape you.