Finding Love at University: A Journey of Growth and Discovery
When I reflect on my time as a student at the University of California at Los Angeles, one particular memory stands out above the rest - the moment I found love. It was a transformative experience that not only changed my romantic life but also shaped me as an individual. Before attending university, I had never had a girlfriend or experienced intimacy. Little did I know that my time at UCLA would open the doors to a whole new world of love and connection.
Embracing Vulnerability and Overcoming Shyness
As a naturally shy person, I often found myself retreating into my own shell, especially when it came to matters of the heart. However, fate had different plans for me. It all began when I moved into the university student residence. There was this girl who seemed to have taken an interest in me. Despite my initial attempts to hide myself, she persisted in getting to know me better.
At first, I was hesitant and unsure of how to navigate this newfound attention. However, her persistence and genuine interest in me gradually broke down the walls I had built around myself. I began to open up and let her into my world. It was through this process that we formed a deep connection and became lovers.
A Journey of Love and Growth
Our relationship blossomed not only romantically but also intellectually. We discovered a shared passion for learning and exploring new experiences. We often studied together, supporting and challenging each other academically. Our weekends were filled with cultural outings, from attending Shakespeare plays to immersing ourselves in the beauty of orchestral performances.
These shared experiences allowed us to grow individually and as a couple. We learned to communicate effectively, compromise, and appreciate each other's unique perspectives. Our love became a catalyst for personal growth, encouraging us to step out of our comfort zones and embrace new opportunities.
A Love That Stands the Test of Time
Fast forward to the present day, and the love we discovered at university has stood the test of time. We are now happily married with two wonderful boys. Our journey from shy university students to a loving family has been filled with ups and downs, but our commitment to each other has remained unwavering.
Through the challenges and joys of raising a family, we have continued to support and uplift one another. Our shared experiences at university laid the foundation for a strong and resilient relationship that has withstood the trials of life.
Conclusion
Finding love at the University of California at Los Angeles was a pivotal moment in my life. It taught me the importance of vulnerability, the power of connection, and the transformative nature of love. My time at university not only provided me with an education but also gifted me with a lifelong partner and a beautiful family.
As I reflect on my journey, I am grateful for the opportunities that university life presented me. It was within those hallowed halls that I found love and discovered a world of intimacy and connection that I had never experienced before. My story serves as a reminder that love can find us when we least expect it, and that the journey of finding love is often intertwined with personal growth and self-discovery.
After UCLA College of Letters where I obtained PhD is Philosophy, Psychology and Religion I got a teaching job at the University. I felt uneasy teaching. I applied for a job in the mental health field; I got many offers and within two years was running the mental health center where I worked, supervising psychologists and psychiatrists who have been in that field for many decades.
Eventually, I felt bored by the job (of been executive director...I was barely thirty two years old when I was the executive director of the largest mental health agency in the city where I lived) and quit and tried doing other things.
Nothing I tried worked out for me. So, I did other executive director jobs but eventually wound up quitting and returning to college teaching until I felt that teaching is too easy for me; I felt unchallenged being a college professor (I filled my time writing on assorted subjects that interested me).
Eventually, I realized that I have a destiny and fate. My normal routine is to read until I go to sleep (although there is a huge TV in the house, I seldom watch it) and get up around 5 AM, think for a while, and then go to my computer and type the thoughts that I just had in my sleep.